LEARN HOW TO MANAGE YOUR HIGH FLYING CAREER OR BUSINESS WOMAN. STOP THAT NEGATIVE MENTALITY TODAY

LEARN HOW TO MANAGE YOUR HIGH FLYING CAREER OR BUSINESS WOMAN. STOP THAT NEGATIVE MENTALITY TODAY
(Written by Latunde Akin)
I have come to realise a lot of men don't feel comfortable when a woman is doing better than them.
It is a sign of emotional immaturity.
Once you as a man begins to think your headship should always mean you must do better in all areas than your partner. You're a chicken already in the brain.
Our headship isn't necessarily mean more money, but strictly leadership.
If your partner is self reliant, wow! you should count yourself so fortunate among men and begin to show good leadership as well.
Jealousy, self ego,inferiority or superiority complex is a sign that your brain is upside down or that you don't know God at all.
If a woman is proud, nagging, tramping on you,all because she is the one taking more responsibility in the relationship. It is not because of money ,but because you are not providing enough leadership for her.
Go and check it very well, that soft spot she had for you before you engaged her in relationship isn't fake,but because you didn't manage that soft spot well. She became wild because you failed to manage the soft spot well. You lacked leadership! Stop blaming your followers.
Everyone has soft spot and stubborn spot. So don't think you are a saint o. Even me ayam not a saint in this regard. If you treat me well, you will see me leaning on the staff of my office deliberately issuing utterances you may never imagine. Oh my my, I sabi love o,forget my bold face
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The only people I can advice you to run away from are narcissistic people. Run o,please run o. Unless you are sure God wants you to stay till the person is delivered. And that must be before marriage anyways.
A man who is not emotionally intelligent is a whimp. He can't provide leadership. He will just suffocate glory out of his followers of which his wife is one.
A woman can give you heaven on earth if you know how to stand by them.
A woman can ensure you won't go down in destiny if you can know how to raise them.
Even a demonic woman has a way they can be handled if you have the wisdom of handling them. The WISDOM OF GOD.
I have seen a man that entered "one chance " and I simply told him to get information about certain mysteries about the woman. Let me stop here
,become a prophet first.
A man who isn't born again can't rather overcome demons in his marriage. Good behavior can only keep troubles for a while. You need to be genuinely born again and repent of all the way you have led your house wrongly before God can fight for you.
It is not enough to know the bible, the Bible must transform both your emotional, and spiritual life so that you can be fit to lead a woman well no matter how hard such woman is. Hard women are easy to lead once you have that emotional capacity to manage their soft spot well.
You get intimidated or pissed of because a woman is telling you she is financially reliant and can take care of herself. You be mumu o. Instead to understand the great treasure God is bringing into your space, you are looking at her as a proud lady.
Do you even realise, she has her fears too,that's why she is telling you she isn't after any man's money?
Yes,she may not have to say that to you ,since nothing warrants saying it. But do you really know a woman? A woman thinks forward into many years ahead than a man. A woman reads body language more than a man. They see farther while a man sees deeper.
Does this make you as a man not to be responsible again in your house? No!
If a woman is supplying nearly everything in the house due to her opportunity. You as a man must provide management and leadership for such woman!.
A leader is a servant in disguise you know? Be her manager! Help her manage the resources well without being frugal or extravagant about it. Show her the strength of a man! Go out of your comfort zone to suprise her that you are ready to PROTECT her. A man who can't protect a woman spiritually and physically isn't a man yet,but a chicken. Make good use of her to rise! Stop feeling bad and then begin to misbehave. You will lose out !
Get books to read that can develop your internal muscle for healthy management of your patner. Get out of that inferiority or superiority complex. Stop abusing your help meet!
Woman, if you know you too are evil, please stop being evil. It won't pay you on the long run. Appreciate God has given you a nice man. Stop demoralising men all because you have more resources.
Peace be unto us all. @highlight