TREAT PEOPLE BETTER. STOP BEING AWFUL

TREAT PEOPLE BETTER. STOP BEING AWFUL
By Latunde Akin
I was that awful too but I learned my lessons and tchanged for the better. Now I write from a better position.
When people LOOKED my face,they will say I was gentle. And I will also play along as if I was. But within me I knew I wasn't. I was a tactically terrible person within my space. Oh ,so terrible that I made people shed tears. Causing emotional damage everywhere but in a very pretentious manner.
I am never a narcissistic person and the reason is because I am actually a genuine believer. I will go to weep before God as well for causing harm to people around me. Asking for a transformation.
At least people could still manage me because they know I haven't lost my heart of being contrite. I will want to believe they probably saw I was still a candidate in the school of brokenness. Just that I kept failing in the school.
The way God dealt with me was also terrible. Probably because of His mercy He had to deal with me in such way,so that I can stop having carry-over all the time.
God used witchcraft people to deal with me mercilessly
. "Shebi I no wan pass for brokenness class before ni,". I ran my feet no touch ground.
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You can't continue to treat people wrongly and still say you want to be preaching gospel. If God allowed you for a while to be progressing because of his hand in your life and you don't stop treating people wrongly, One day,He will remove His hand so you can know your anointing can't deliver you more than your good character.
I saw pepper
, and my eye clear
. I can't tell you all the stories here. I know you like some stories that should not be said outside
. No be me go tell it like that. Na my experience, go get ya own experience.
Jokes apart, if you are misbehaving or treating people wrongly, please stop it today so it won't stop your joy.
As a man in the house, treat your wife well.
As a man in the office, treat the ladies and associates well.
As a leader in church, stop hurting people.
As husband, avoid damaging people's emotion,and stop disturbing people's mental peace.
Yes,know how to balance rascality with genuine heart for men and women.
You see, if you refuse to be broken as part of God's standard for His own people, If God loves you,he will use even the enemy to break you. If you're still not sensitive to know it's God using the enemy, and you still go about praying that your enemies should kpai. Then be sure you are totally going down the drain as well.
Most prayers we pray against enemies are not necessary if we can check inwards first for our wrong attitudes and ask God to transform us better. Enemies are not so powerful if we don't give them that power from our wrong attitude. Enemies feed on our wrong attitude to thrive. Get this fact and get sense today.
I see men who look nice outside but inside their house they are not nice at all. Why? Are you possessed ni?
It is better a man provides good leadership in his house first before projecting himself in the public as a leader. You be yeye leader if those in your house can't enjoy you.
What women need is good leadership and not just giving them things at the expense of their peace of mind.
No matter how great a woman is,if you can provide good leadership for her,her stubbornness will keep melting at her seeing you. People may think you are too nice,but it's only her that will know it's not just about being nice (because no be niceness woman go chop),it's about being a good leader who carries her along by being supportive ,responsible, and protective.
An insecure man is a w.i.t.c.h. Men should stop feeling insecure beside any women, else they will see you as a security threat who can't protect them from danger. Men were built by God to protect women naturally and if your case is different, you will likely turn such woman into a monster. She will like to protect herself by all means when a man isn't there to provide it.
Man,you better calm down today and forever. Be a man,and stop that wrong behavior.
Yes you might be a believer, and you fall into this category of stunted children of God with many carry- overs in your life. All you need to do today is to simply humble yourself before the Lord and His people so that you won't be humbled by forces of God and Satan.
Do not say,you have your rights to claim when people around you are getting hurt. Remember that tree of good and evil looks right too,but cannot be compared with tree of life. Stop eating fruits from tree of rights and wrongs. Begin to eat from the tree of life. Humble yourself and repent genuinely. Give God reason to be happy about you always.
Be courageous as a man,be bold as a man. Stop playing victims game. Stop defending yourself when you are wrong. What a woman needs is sincerity, not perfection.
Leadership isn't by mouth, but by having a mind like Christ. Humility and wisdom, courage and compassion. Radicality with sense. Amen
God bless you.