I boarded a bus from Oshodi to Mushin one day.

I boarded a bus from Oshodi to Mushin one day.
A fine lady sat beside me and I actually admired her. She looked so modest like a sister.
Me that was looking for fine sister to marry, I felt the need to follow her secretly to know where she was going to.
I didn't know her from anywhere,and she didn't know me from anywhere! We met in that bus and the trip was so short for a good conversation.
Unknowingly to her,I alighted where she alighted. I hadn't reached my own destination but I had to alight because of her.
Secretly I followed her behind till she entered her house. Then one day I went visiting.
It was her mother I met and I had to explain that we met in the bus with her daughter blabla .
She looked at me with surprise and called her daughter out. When she saw me ,she was suprised how I got to know her how. I responded I alighted after she alighted on that day. So I saw her when she entered her house.
I introduced myself to her. I mean as a born again person, serious and from so so and so church. You know how some brother used to become so bold and straightforward. I actually did same.
.
On getting to know her believe system, we were wide apart. My body calmed. I got stocked from stalking. At least I tried
. If you never "toasted" a lady before, come and stone me
. At least you should give me kudos for pursuing a soul to a reasonable conclusion
.
You know one funny thing? If you pursue church sisters with that approach, the church authority may want to send you to hell
,instead to understand that wooing a lady is not sinful as long as you have not committed any sin.
By the way,I discovered it was just the lady's physical modesty that attracted me,thus my navigation to know her more. I was actually searching for a wife then, so I felt I shouldn't let that damsel go like that. Unfortunately I missed out because I can't marry a Jehovah Witness.
If I may ask. How many times have you compromised your value system for another thing that doesn't go with your values?
It means you sold your birthright the moment you compromised.
It shows you are actually filled with lust that moment you entered into wrong relationship or committed that sin.
It shows you are a chicken and not a real man,when you just must enter into immorality at the beckon of temptation.
Yes,you can explore, try new skills, but sin not.
And if you have sinned, simply understand there's is always a road back to the Saviour, Jesus Christ who is ready to restore you.
Are you right now in any wrong relationship?
Please consider quitting now. A word is enough for the wise.
Happy new month.
Your brother
Latunde Akin
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