Some people will never experience breakthrough until they stopped collecting things from people they were supposed to give.

Some people will never experience breakthrough until they stopped collecting things from people they were supposed to give.
For example, your parents who spent so much on you to train you ,and at a stage you're supposed to be giving them, you then take pleasure in collecting from them.
At a point in my life,when I noticed my parents wanted to be giving and giving all because of parental pity. I stopped them before they stop me with needless care. Na serious fight o,I hate nonsense!
What those kind of care does is that it limits your thinking faculty to be innovative and creative. It makes you rest in your comfort zone expecting them to pity you. You may think you're enjoying, but I tell you ,you're only enjoying nonsense!
A grown up man who still depend on those that supposed to depend on him is a simply limiting his own destiny without knowing.
No matter how hard situation is or jobless you're. Never ever allow anyone to keep pitying you. Get out of that nonsense comfort zone and look for something little to do. Great things start in a little way. Stop thinking about starting big by waiting to be fed by those you should be feeding.
One day,my parents brought raw food for me because they felt i needed it. My job lost me at the time,but I wasn't ever ready give up on hustling. Immediately I told them never to try that again till eternity. If they really wanted to help,it's not food I want,they should have shared part of their retirement gratuity so I could return it after doing business with it. I insisted at that stage I should be the one sending foods. It was a thug of war,but I was brave enough to stop any pity that can peg me in any comfort zone.
Likewise, there are people in your life that you should begin to be responsible to and not them taking your responsibility anymore. This is because there is a way universe was arranged that once someone isn't happy taking that responsibility again because they feel you should be responsible too. And they were forced by any bad situation to take up such responsibility. Their spirit won't be happy doing it,but you may see them smiling. Their inner sadness you're not seeing is a bad energy for your progress. Forget the smile you see outwardly.
The only way to evade such bad inner energy is to strictly become the giver and not the reciever. So no matter how bad your situation is,still try and be giving to people who can pray for you and release certain utterances of blessing into your life. They may not even need those things because they are comfortable, but because of their blessing.
Get this secret and be truly free from limitations.
It's an act of irresponsibility to always expect to recieve material benefits from people you should give . That is, people who should give you more than material blessing. People who should spiritually bless you beyond money.
Though sometimes they can materially bless us,but we shouldn't always expect it. What our parents, pastors, authority figures in our lives has is far more than any material gift. Unless we're spiritually blind.
Got it?
God bless.
Your brother,
Latunde Akin