You live in an environment where people condemn you and you still remain there.

You live in an environment where people condemn you and you still remain there.
Don't you know it is dangerous to stay where there is no peace of mind?
Even when it is God who prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies. You must understand how to carry the table to a safe place.
You're not wise if you keep eating in the presence of enemies. They may break one leg of the table.
Get me right, please.
On your table, you mustn't allow any negative person sit with you to eat. Rather help a negative person away from your table.
Do not copy Jesus verbatim by allowing Judas Iscariots sit with you at the table. You're not meant to die for anyone's wrong. Only Jesus is meant to do that.
Once you noticed any strange behaviour from anyone around you. Call them and warn them if you can. So it won't be like you're not proactively consederate. Yes give people second chance but not third. You are not Jesus. You must understand how to discern genuine repentance before you could take any step further.
You live among people who just hate you or are never peaceful. First you must understand it's not your attitude causing it. Because blaming others for what you caused is like moving from frying pan to fire.
If you find yourself among people where your dreams can't be achieved. It is better you move out as soon as possible. Stop continue to decieve yourself by thinking you will succeed in such environment.
If your location is not localised to locate your allocation. Then relocate to a location where your divine allocation can locate you. Don't be heady.
"Follow peace with all men"
simply is all about movement to where peace is going and not necessarily making peace with people who don't have any peace to make with you.
"You gerrit? If you don't gerrit then forget about rit"
God bless you for getting it.
Your brother
Latunde Akin