When you think you own people's life is when God will make you realise you have been so foolish to think like that.

When you think you own people's life is when God will make you realise you have been so foolish to think like that.
We are all simply messangers we don't own anyone no matter how closely related.
God pitches people to come out through you or come around you so you as a messanger can handle them well.
I learned this while I was still single and stubborn. Stubborn so much and were hurting people God pitched around me. At a point I realised my folly through hardknocks of life. And single handedly went to all I once hurted to apologise genuinely.
Oh what a relief within my soul to see myself mending ways with people. Yes some couldn't accept my apology but God was far happier I did. So it's not about those I hurt ,its about God changing a man.
Thereafter, God showed me it is better to see myself as an instrument and not as an owner. God answered my prayers and every other aspect began to fall in line.
If you think I was a gentle man,you missed it. Stop looking at facial appearance,many people you think are gentle are not really gentle. Even right now,i only maintain the balance because i have grown considerably and still growing.
Your toughness shouldn't erase contriteness from your life. Else you're not a tool yet in God's hand.
To men and women who don't know how to treat people well or better than you met them. Repent today and go personally to apologise to those people.
God bless you.
Your brother
Latunde Akin